@advantage20
Good posting! I also regularly vote for black wheels (on my E92 M3 and F82 M4) exactly for the reasons you describe! Not because I feel, that black wheels are cool ghetto or gangsta style, but because of a minimalistic two tone color scheme! On the Ms I do already have those black accents/parts, especially with my Competition pack versions (carbon roof, grills, exhaust tipps, shadowline gloss window frames, side sills, carbon front splitters, rear spoiler, diffusor).
So - black wheels keep this homogenous two color scheme! Putting 19 or 20 inch bright silver rims on the car, looks odd to me!
Originally my E92 M3 competition in brilliant white (with M performance goodies) came with the 359 M competition wheels in silver! My winter wheel setup were BBS CH-R wheels in satin black same 19" size. After I switched to this winter setup all my (car enthusiastic) friends told me: "Manuel, you are the first, where the car with winter setup looks better, more cohesive!".
Ok. Next summer season I coated also the summer rims 359M in satin black and it looked so much better!
Long story short: On cars with two tone color schemes with existing silver accents, I feel, that silver rims look perfect. On a car, without existing silver accents and there silver rims simply add an additional color accent, I don't like it that much.