It's Over. It's Done.

JadeVetti

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It's Official Guys....

I will not be getting the X6 after all. Who knew that a car could feel like a real break-up?

I got the call from my dealer back on May 2 (that long ago, I would have received my X6 50i sometime this week or by July 7th) to start my production, but with the serious back and forth between myself and Hubby, I should have known that this was not going to go.

His views are set on the fact that gas prices are rising and manufacturers will be dropping new lows on their prices in the forseeable future, making it smart to wait on any purchase of a SUV (my argument: this is not a SUV). And he feels that getting a brand new car that hasn't worked out its kinks is, "silly". (My argument: somebody has to be first someday, you will only remember the pioneers).

This has been a great roller coaster thrill ride, and it's now time for me to get off and feel "earth" again, I suppose.

I'd like to give you guys a tip, for those of you that are in relationships, married, etc.

There is nothing worse than a woman set passionately on something that you initially agreed to, only to change your mind when it comes to crunch time, no matter the reason. It will land you in the doghouse until the fire sizzles out (and each burns differently!). Sure, he makes sense, and I do see that, but in the meantime, I have to deal with a crushed heart and mend it. And when I finally see a 50i on the street in the near future, I will always cringe. I hate the pity party, and he has since retracted his sentiments and wants to wait for the 2009 model instead, but I feel obliged, and refuse that.

Count me in on that roster where the dream car is the BMW CS. I will live vicariously through all you guys with the X6 instead.

Love. Peace. And Sheer Driving Pleasure.

:ring:
 
Sorry to hear about this! Kind of sucks that the BMW X6 3.0d (diesel) isn't being sold in the US at the moment. Now that is a car you can enjoy and that is relatively fuel efficient compared to a comparable gasoline-powered model. You and your husband need to move to Europe. That's where the good stuff is! :usa7uh:

Jade, do you have children by the way?
 
Indeed, CleanDiesel would have solved the conflict I believe. Too bad it didn't work out.
 
Sad story and I can understand your feelings, and believe me it has got nothing to do with being a women or a man, it's just when you look forward to something you realy want and then end up not getting it. That just sucks. :t-banghea
About the arguments your husband uses: If you can afford a X6 50i you probably don't have to worry about gas prices, nor about vehicle prices that would go down because of those high gas prices (au contraire, I read an article in a newspaper here in belgium that steel prices for use in cars would go up by 60%, at least the steel produced by arcelor mittal, so car prices in the future will be going up, not down). And about sart up problems, isn't that why the invented something like a warranty? I think your husband is more concerned about what people will think, as many people see the X6 as a useless car (and honestly they are not all wrong) but it just is a car that offers some sort of SUV feeling but that handles like a regular car or even better, and that is all what BMW stands for, sheer driving pleasure. People who have driven a BMW know the feeling :t-drive:, others envy it.
Oh and if you want the order for the X6 placed within a month try the next sentence every night: "Sorry honey I've got a headache" :D
You might gor for an M3 now, top gear has proven that it is more economical than a toyota Prius :D
 
Wimmer and Siko, I miss Europe and beyond:(. Sometimes, like in this situation:). I have two kiddies, 3 and 20 months. Their carseats will more than occupy the backseat, but they are royalty, and in a royal carriage, no one sits in between the king and queen, right? :D

BMW Power, you better believe it!;) But I think that is his underlying reason, though he denies that. Plus, I've caught him looking at the GL and ML classes on different occasions (he's a big MB fan, but I like the Q7 next to the X6 in the "SUV" category).

Thanks for all the input guys. Much appreciated.
 
Wimmer and Siko, I miss Europe and beyond:(. Sometimes, like in this situation:). I have two kiddies, 3 and 20 months.


Awwwwww! :t-cheers:

Hopefully your next dream car will work out better. With two young kids you might want to check out a Mercedes E-Class Estate! :D
 
Please wimmer, did you really have to hurt her feelings even worse ??? :DJ/K but i don't think an E class estate will be a good alternative, M5 touring though :usa7uh:
 
Hubby is right. I would wait till they add the new NAV and iDrive to X6.
 
That's what he likes! LOL I told you he's an MB fan. He is actually going to trade in our current car for one next year, now that I have (very sulkily) stated that I no longer want any car, and will pass. :D
 
That's what he likes! LOL I told you he's an MB fan. He is actually going to trade in our current car for one next year, now that I have (very sulkily) stated that I no longer want any car, and will pass. :D

This looks like a good marriage. I mean two kids, a husband who's an MB fan and a wife who loves BMW. Good marriage indeed. :D

Make sure those kids love Audi! :D

:t-cheers:
 
This looks like a good marriage. I mean two kids, a husband who's an MB fan and a wife who loves BMW. Good marriage indeed. :D

Make sure those kids love Audi! :D

:t-cheers:

Well in that case I feel like a real good TV show comming up.... "Live the way it is, car lovers at war!" :D

But seriously now. There must be some intermediate solution where you can enjoy a fine BMW and your husband can cruise along in his well ... big thing on wheels (ML or GL he even has a choice). If you can afford it then why not have two SUV/SAV's .... . So at the end it just comes down to the fact that he doesn't want you to buy the X6 for 'what people might think' as all his other arguments also speak against the G/ML. I think his mind has gone a little :t-crazy2:
Maybe you can have the kids decide, just show them the pictures, then I know the MB won't stand a chance :usa7uh: (and nor will the Q7 cause it's ugly, at least IMO)
 
This looks like a good marriage. I mean two kids, a husband who's an MB fan and a wife who loves BMW. Good marriage indeed. :D

Make sure those kids love Audi! :D

:t-cheers:

LOL, that's my mother and my brother, ahem. Yes, the family is very divided when it comes to the German cars.

EM Power, I didn't know there was no iDrive in the X6. I learn something new every day on here:usa7uh:.

The kids got so used to seeing my screensavers/wallpaper/pics of X6 around the house, that whenever they see a X5, they say "Mommee's caw!" :D
 
LOL, that's my mother and my brother, ahem. Yes, the family is very divided when it comes to the German cars.

EM Power, I didn't know there was no iDrive in the X6. I learn something new every day on here:usa7uh:.

The kids got so used to seeing my screensavers/wallpaper/pics of X6 around the house, that whenever they see a X5, they say "Mommee's caw!" :D
The iDrive is there even now but they are switching to hard drive based nav and the new iDrive with some extra buttons.

BimmerFile Archive iDrive to have 40GB hard disk
BimmerFile Archive More Customizable iDrive Coming
 

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